The 12 Days of Christmas from Dr. Terry Paulson
The Sixth Day of Christmas...2013

The Twelve Days of Christmas

Day Six...December 19, 2013

Terry Paulson, PhD, CSP, CPAE

On the Sixth Day of Christmas my true friend gave to me...

A chance to be an angel...

This year, each message will be archived on my website, and you can see some past collections of messages by visiting that website now at

A CHRISTMAS THOUGHT FOR THE DAY..."Christmas Is a Time to Leave Footprints"

"A friend is a present you give yourself." --Robert Louis Stevenson

"Many people will walk in and out of your life, But only true friends will leave footprints in your heart." --Eleanor Roosevelt

Give yourself this Christmas the gift of time with friends and family. Now, that is a gift that keeps on giving to all involved. Oh, and leave a few footprints in their hearts!

I LOVE TO TELL THE STORY..."Are You an Angel or Something?"

I was driving home from a meeting, and the car started to choke and splutter and die. I barely managed to coast into a gas station, glad only that I would not be blocking traffic and would have a somewhat warm spot to wait for the tow truck.
Before I could make the call, I saw a woman walking out of the "quickie mart " building, and it looked like she slipped on some ice and fell into a Gas pump, so I got out to see if she was okay

When I got there, it looked more like she had been overcome by sobs than that she had fallen; she was a young woman who looked really haggard with dark circles under her eyes. She dropped something as I helped her up, and I picked it up to give it to her. It was a nickel.

At that moment, everything came into focus for me: the crying woman, the ancient Suburban crammed full of stuff with 3 kids in the back, and the gas pump reading $4.95.

I asked her if she was okay and if she needed help, and she just kept saying, "I don't want my kids to see me crying," so we stood on the other side of the pump from her car. She said she was driving to California to get to her family for Christmas and that things were very hard for her right now. So I asked, "And you were praying?" That made her back a away from me a little, but I assured her I was not a crazy person and said, "He heard you, and He sent me."

I took out my card and swiped it through the card reader on the pump so she could fill up her car completely, and while it was fuelling, walked to the next door McDonald's and bought 2 big bags of food, some gift certificates for more, and a big cup of coffee. She gave the food to the kids in the car, who attacked it like wolves, and we stood by the pump eating fries and talking a little.

She told me her name, and that she lived in Kansas City Her boyfriend left two months ago, and she had not been able to make ends meet. She knew she wouldn't have money to pay rent January 1, and finally in desperation had finally called her parents, with whom she had not spoken in about 5 years. They lived in California and said she could come live with them and try to get on her feet there.

So she packed up everything she owned in the car. She told the kids they were going to California for Christmas, but not that they were going to live there.

I gave her my gloves, a little hug and said a quick prayer with her for safety on the road. As I was walking over to my car, she said, "So, are you like an angel or something?"

This definitely made me cry. I said, "Sweetie, at this time of year angels are really busy, so sometimes God uses regular people."

It was so incredible to be a part of someone else's miracle. And of course, you guessed it, when I got in my car it started right away and got me home with no problem. I'll put it in the shop tomorrow to check, but I suspect the mechanic won't find anything wrong. Sometimes the angels fly close enough to you that you can hear the flutter of their wings...

Psalms 55:22 "Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee. He shall never suffer the righteous to be moved."

Here is my prayer: "Father, I ask You to bless those reading this right now. Show them a new revelation of your love and power. Holy Spirit, I ask You to minister to their spirit this very moment. Where there is pain, give them Your peace and mercy. Where there is self doubt, release a renewed confidence through Your grace, In Jesus' precious name. Amen."

--This was written by a Metro Denver Hospice Physician:


"Whoever wrote Silent Night has never been in a delivery room!" (Compliments of Vicki Hitzges)


Oh how I wish I could have been in the cafe when the band "Cloverton" surprised everyone with a stirring performance of Hallelujah! May it captivate you as it did me.

Remember, You can find the archived messages from this year's series on my website at For now, keep your sense of humor and your sense of thanksgiving and anticipation! More we prepare for His coming!

Your Host for our 12 Day Journey to Christmas.

Terry Paulson, PhD

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